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Not the Same
Posted on Friday, May 25, 2012
It has been a while since I sat down to write a blog article. Who would of thought being the executive director of a new, Mississippi non-profit adoption agency would be so time consuming? But I digress (more on that later)… I have a friend and client who is going through a divorce. He is a great guy who made a few mistakes. Actually, in the grand scheme of mistakes that a person can make in a marriage, his were relatively minor offenses, but his wife, a hard-charging, type-A personality, cannot stand that her perfect little idea of a life may not have a starched shirt and slick, silk tie. I grieve for him, but I grieve for her just as much. I want to reach out to her and tell her that if your idea of living is measured relationally to those around you as opposed to what springs from inside, inhabiting the spiritual realm, there will never be a sense of satisfaction, but what do I know, she is going through one divorce and I have been through about 500. READ MORE
Go Buy a TV
Posted on Saturday, April 21, 2012
I have gotten on this kick where I like salmon for breakfast –whether it be in an omelet or on a bagel or served Benedict style, throw in some tomatoes, purple onion, cream cheese and capers and it is on. If you are feeling frisky, you could include a little spinach for color. While I have been trying to cut carbs lately, for breakfast, especially one including “pink fish”, I make an exception. Every now and then I will go to breakfast by myself. It is a good way for me to clear my head before I get in to the office to face the day’s challenges. READ MORE
Tim Tebow versus Joel Osteen
Posted on Sunday, January 15, 2012
I have a friend who is an addict. It breaks my heart how he continually makes bad choices. I have not supported his bad choices and he has said many things calculated to hurt me –mostly via text message. Even if untrue or with only shades of truth, words from those you love hurt the most. That is one of the many things that make divorce in the Bible belt of Mississippi (or anywhere for that matter) so freaking hard. READ MORE
The Sugar Jacket
Posted on Thursday, October 13, 2011
One of my favorite television programs is Modern Family. In one episode, the character, Gloria, coaxed her husband into giving advice on the "Good Dog, Bad Dog Training System." Guillermo, the entrepreneur, described his business idea with honesty and excitement. The system was fatally flawed, however: it rewarded the dog for being good or for being bad. For being good, the dog got a bacon-flavored treat; for being bad, it got a bland treat. After listening to the pitch, Gloria's husband, Jay, bluntly told Guillermo the idea was not good. The would-be businessman wept. Gloria told Jay that he should have been nice and "put on the sugar jacket" when he commented on the plan. READ MORE
Your Final Destination
Posted on Thursday, October 13, 2011
I was in an airport recently and watched passengers deplane from a flight that was very, very behind schedule. The passengers were panicked, afraid they would miss their connecting flights. A helpful airline employee tried to help them on their way by asking, "What is your final destination?" One passenger replied, "Heaven!" He knew where he was going to end up, regardless of the obstacles the world presented. READ MORE
'Til Debt Do Us Part
Posted on Thursday, June 16, 2011
I am 26 years old and marriage is all around me. Yes, I am at the age where every week a friend calls screaming in excitement about her engagement. Many of my friends are also obtaining higher degrees from graduate programs, like me as well, and have loan payments looming over them after graduating. So, what happens to this debt after you marry? Are you alone legally bound to pay it, or is your future husband marrying you and your debt? What happens if the marriage ends? Who ends up paying? READ MORE
Things to Remember if You Have to Testify
Posted on Monday, April 04, 2011
If you are involved in a family law case, you might have to testify as many as three or four separate times in various proceedings. There are simple yet very important things you should remember about giving testimony. If you don't, you could find yourself in major trouble. READ MORE
What Is Legal Custody In Mississippi?
Posted on Sunday, January 16, 2011
There are two types of child custody in Mississippi, legal and physical. In deciding which parent gets custody of a child, the Court considers the best interests and welfare of the child. There are very important factors to be utilized under the landmark Mississippi Supreme Court decision, Albright v. Albright, but the best interests and welfare test is the “polestar" consideration, according to our appellate courts. READ MORE
The Roller Coaster Ride
Posted on Thursday, January 06, 2011
Being a divorce lawyer is a relatively recession proof occupation. Unfortunately, the volume of Mississippi family law conflict is endless. People are going to have relationship problems and they are going to need legal counsel, regardless of their ability to pay for the services. That is just the way it is. For many people that may be reading this, their occupation is not “recession proof.” Maybe you have suffered a job loss or a failed business or you are the spouse of someone who has. Many people I know and represent, mostly victims of circumstance, have suffered repossessions, foreclosures, bankruptcy or other negative financial consequences. READ MORE
Your Story Ends in a Funeral
Posted on Sunday, January 02, 2011
I had a dream that woke me up early this morning mad and then grateful. Rachel and I were traveling in the mountains and we were both in separate cars. She was with her mom and I had someone with me too. I think it was a friend but I am not totally sure- you know how dreams are. The kids were with her and they were supposed to be following us to a scenic area. I went to the spot, and she didn’t show up. I thought to myself that maybe I have the wrong place. So I called her. She didn’t answer. I looked for her vehicle, but she was nowhere to be found. I unsuccessfully called her again. I drove around- still no Rachel and still no kids. After what seemed like hours, I finally got her on the phone and she dismissively told me that she made another plan and basically I was out of luck. In my dream, I went crazy. I was yelling at her words to the effect “What gives you the unilateral right to change our plans and take the kids?” Thankfully, in the middle of my rant, I woke up and my kids were safely in their beds and Rachel was sound asleep next to me. READ MORE
