The Sugar Jacket

Posted on Thursday, October 13, 2011


One of my favorite television programs is Modern Family.  In one episode, the character, Gloria, coaxed her husband into giving advice on the "Good Dog, Bad Dog Training System."  Guillermo, the entrepreneur, described his business idea with honesty and excitement.  The system was fatally flawed, however: it rewarded the dog for being good or for being bad.  For being good, the dog got a bacon-flavored treat; for being bad, it got a bland treat.  After listening to the pitch, Gloria's husband, Jay, bluntly told Guillermo the idea was not good.  The would-be businessman wept.  Gloria told Jay that he should have been nice and "put on the sugar jacket" when he commented on the plan. READ MORE

Your Final Destination

Posted on Thursday, October 13, 2011


I was in an airport recently and watched passengers deplane from a flight that was very, very behind schedule.  The passengers were panicked, afraid they would miss their connecting flights. A helpful airline employee tried to help them on their way by asking, "What is your final destination?" One passenger replied, "Heaven!"  He knew where he was going to end up, regardless of the obstacles the world presented.   READ MORE

The Body of the Spider

Posted on Wednesday, May 25, 2011


 If you have read much of what I have written, you know my dad is an electrician- IBEW Local 480. At age 78, he served as the primary electrician when Rachel and I constructed our home. This man has an incredible work ethic that I am blessed to attempt to model in my life. Like my dad, I have always enjoyed the construction business. It has been a hobby ever since I finished law school. I have been actively involved in the construction of the addition on our first  home in Fondren, a house at the reservoir, an office building on Avery, a house in Reunion and the office/condominiums in Olde Towne Ridgeland.  READ MORE

Momma and Them Don't Know Better

Posted on Monday, May 23, 2011


If you know me, you know that I am a proudly from South Jackson- I’m not talking about Byram. I’m not talking about Terry. I’m talking about snuggled between McDowell and Raymond Road around the corner from Wingfield High, South Jackson 39204. My phone number growing up began with 372. I proudly wear my South Jackson t-shirt because it is a part of who I am. If you are from South Jackson, you immediately get the benefit of the doubt in my book. READ MORE

What am I Not Asking That I Should Be Asking?

Posted on Friday, May 06, 2011


I get to meet with all sorts of people about all sorts of things. I am sure you do too. I love to talk to marketing people, counselors, pastors, lawyers, accountants, doctors- you name it. A part of my business growth plan is to make personal connections with folks like me that are in the business of helping people in family crisis. Lately, I have been meeting with a lot of people about adoption. To me, it makes no sense why it should cost $35,000 to adopt a starving or impoverished child in another country. It also makes no sense to me why it should be so difficult and similarly expensive to make connections in our own country between children that need to be loved and a family that has lots of love to give. We want to do something about it. R+A needs to be in the happiness business in equal parts with the sadness business: One child- one family- one connection. After all, piecing blended families together is our specialty. If we can take them apart, we can certainly put them back together again; but more to come on this later.  READ MORE

Be There for Your Kids

Posted on Thursday, April 28, 2011


I love my job. Being a Mississippi family law attorney has proven to be a constructive and positive way for me to use my talents. I love people. I love serving others. I enjoy walking clients through one of the most difficult and darkest seasons of their lives. I feel called to this profession. Because of this calling, I believe it’s my responsibility to serve others in this way.  READ MORE

Let's Go See A Lawyer

Posted on Wednesday, March 30, 2011


Many times people are under the misimpression that an attorney can represent both spouses in a divorce.  If your spouse utters the words, "Let's go see an attorney I talked to about the divorce" or something of that nature, you should be a little suspicious because Mississippi doesn't allow an attorney to represent both of you in a divorce. READ MORE

Young Lawyers

Posted on Thursday, March 24, 2011


So when I was in high school, the guys grew out their sideburns- 90210 style. A few months ago, I thought I would revive the look. I didn’t shave for a few days and when I did, I carved in some that would make Dillon proud. I let them grow for a week or so. As you may have suspected, they didn’t look right. Not because they weren’t cool- they were. It was mainly because one of them appeared to be gapped. It was weird. Upon close examination, my sideburns were not gapped at all- they had gray hair that made them appear that way. Just wrong!  READ MORE

Minutiae

Posted on Monday, March 21, 2011


So I am working this case with a lawyer who does not practice family law. She is blowing up my email about things that in no way shape or form merits attorneys speaking to one another. It is utterly annoying.  READ MORE

Q & A About R+A

Posted on Monday, February 14, 2011


According to www.divorcenet.com, there are ten questions that a client should ask their prospective divorce attorney. As the founder and managing partner of Robertson + Associates, I thought I would take a few minutes and answer them for you. READ MORE

Last News

Not the Same

Posted on Friday, May 25, 2012


It has been a while since I sat down to write a blog article.  Who would of thought being the executive director of a new,  Mississippi non-profit adoption agency would be so time consuming?  But I digress (more on that later)… I have a friend and client who is going through a divorce.  He is a great guy who made a few mistakes.  Actually, in the grand scheme of mistakes that a person can make in a marriage, his were relatively minor offenses, but his wife, a hard-charging, type-A personality, cannot stand that her perfect little idea of a life may not have a starched shirt and slick, silk tie.   I grieve for him, but I grieve for her just as much.   I want to reach out to her and tell her that if your idea of living is measured relationally to those around you as opposed to what springs from inside, inhabiting the spiritual realm, there will never be a sense of satisfaction, but what do I know, she is going through one divorce and I have been through about 500. READ MORE

Contact R+A

Phone: 601/ 898.8655
Fax: 601/ 898.9767
Email: info@robertson.ms
Office: 128 North Maple Street, Suite A
Ridgeland, MS 39157
Mailing: P.O. Box 2055, Ridgeland, MS 39158