The Sugar Jacket

Posted on Thursday, October 13, 2011


One of my favorite television programs is Modern Family.  In one episode, the character, Gloria, coaxed her husband into giving advice on the "Good Dog, Bad Dog Training System."  Guillermo, the entrepreneur, described his business idea with honesty and excitement.  The system was fatally flawed, however: it rewarded the dog for being good or for being bad.  For being good, the dog got a bacon-flavored treat; for being bad, it got a bland treat.  After listening to the pitch, Gloria's husband, Jay, bluntly told Guillermo the idea was not good.  The would-be businessman wept.  Gloria told Jay that he should have been nice and "put on the sugar jacket" when he commented on the plan. READ MORE

Making the Most of Your Weekend

Posted on Sunday, May 15, 2011


Now living in Mississippi is not the same as living in some place where there is a steady stream of activities, but your weekends don’t have to be like a trip to Disney or “Dad Camp” each and every time. The most important thing is to be together- to be focused on your child and not whatever else or whoever else is in your life at the moment.  READ MORE

Things to Remember if You Have to Testify

Posted on Monday, April 04, 2011


If you are involved in a family law case, you might have to testify as many as three or four separate times in various proceedings. There are simple yet very important things you should remember about giving testimony.  If you don't, you could find yourself in major trouble. READ MORE

Your Story Ends in a Funeral

Posted on Sunday, January 02, 2011


I had a dream that woke me up early this morning mad and then grateful.  Rachel and I were traveling in the mountains and we were both in separate cars.  She was with her mom and I had someone with me too.  I think it was a friend but I am not totally sure- you know how dreams are.  The kids were with her and they were supposed to be following us to a scenic area.  I went to the spot, and she didn’t show up.  I thought to myself that maybe I have the wrong place.  So I called her.  She didn’t answer.  I looked for her vehicle, but she was nowhere to be found.  I unsuccessfully called her again.  I drove around- still no Rachel and still no kids.  After what seemed like hours, I finally got her on the phone and she dismissively told me that she made another plan and basically I was out of luck.  In my dream, I went crazy.  I was yelling at her words to the effect “What gives you the unilateral right to change our plans and take the kids?”  Thankfully, in the middle of my rant, I woke up and my kids were safely in their beds and Rachel was sound asleep next to me.   READ MORE

If I Could Give You a Magic Wand…

Posted on Wednesday, November 24, 2010


One of my favorite questions in an initial meeting with a potential Mississippi family law client is this: “If I could give you a magic wand and you could waive it and make a wish, what would it be?” I get all kinds of interesting answers. Some are realistic, and some are not.  READ MORE

Your Kids and the Holidays

Posted on Saturday, November 20, 2010


Next week is Thanksgiving and I can always expect a few calls from clients that are finding it impossible to work with their spouse to figure out a schedule.  Whether you are living under a child custody order or not, the best advice I can give someone who does not live with their children’s other parent in Mississippi is to be flexible and make the most of the time that you have.   READ MORE

Last News

Not the Same

Posted on Friday, May 25, 2012


It has been a while since I sat down to write a blog article.  Who would of thought being the executive director of a new,  Mississippi non-profit adoption agency would be so time consuming?  But I digress (more on that later)… I have a friend and client who is going through a divorce.  He is a great guy who made a few mistakes.  Actually, in the grand scheme of mistakes that a person can make in a marriage, his were relatively minor offenses, but his wife, a hard-charging, type-A personality, cannot stand that her perfect little idea of a life may not have a starched shirt and slick, silk tie.   I grieve for him, but I grieve for her just as much.   I want to reach out to her and tell her that if your idea of living is measured relationally to those around you as opposed to what springs from inside, inhabiting the spiritual realm, there will never be a sense of satisfaction, but what do I know, she is going through one divorce and I have been through about 500. READ MORE

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